we are all bound by different circumstances, therefore, there is some times where you cannot just live by ownselves, but depends on others decisons. The decicions are not made according to your own will, but it follows the environment around you too, then only come the last results. The only thing you can do is to live courageuosly and to accept it. I, myself, have seen children without parents with different kind of tricky diseases, but stay smiling all the times when i see them. There are much more efforts they need to contribute to their lives compare to what we always complaining to ourselves. They are still thinking what to eat this afternoon, tonight, tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow, and in the future, not because they have no idea, but they actually have the problem with their daily basis. at this point, when you see the scenes of the children living in poverty, you would never think that how much troublesome you are now...you began to feel that, life isn't about LV bag, or Prada wallet, or even Tiffany diamond ring, but how people struggling in their lives in different situations. Merry Christmas children!!