•10/07/2007 10:31:00 PM
I have been sleeping all day, all night without having a proper meal, a proper meal would be a least carbohydrates thirty precent, fat 10 percents, and protein 50 percents and others...i had a high fat meal by the way on Friday lunch and had one third of junk food at night with a few sips of coke....and that make me to feel so guilty of eating again, therefore, i did not consumed a single bit of solid food on the next day, i slept at 3am, i am so addicted to computer games and drama......and woke up at 11am...same as today....and i am so happy to finish Prison Break season one in a week, 45mins per episodes, 22 in total, in 7 days...well, i am not a drama addict, i have a friend finished it in 4 days....
I have a friend who questioned me and asking for thoughts about his personal life.....i think i will go briefly over here and at the same time, i hope you will give me some thoughts as well...
a guy, he has a best friend, who later turns to be his so called girlfriend, they helped each other lots, but they never admitted that they are couples, but outsider always think that they are indeed lovers...this girl, is never the ideal girlfriend for him, all these years they have been cooking together, sometimes they sleep together...but the matter about this girl is that she's fat..that's what he cares about, and the personality is too arrogant but kind hearted...
Second...He met another girl. yes, he's not in the relationship that's why he could flirt around..over here as well.....we could see that the girl is actually crazy for him......and she looks prettier than the fat girl...but she has a complicated heart....bad, slutty....
Thirdly...yes, there is another girl....who is in Malaysia now..... kind hearted.......pretty much an ideal one for him
so, the question came to me....who would i choose if i am in the same situation...
Isn't it good to have the priviledge to choose in your life? haha.....so i told him, i would definitely go for the third one, but the third one is always so faraway from you, and at the same time, you kind of bonded with the first girl who has accompanied you for almost 5 years over here, and now you are going to tell her that you wanted to have a break? well, yeah, since both of you did not have any commitment before, and therefore that would be easy, but it sounds easy, but how are going to make clear everything to her that both of you are actually "best friend"? she might not be thinking the same way as you are, and she's treating you like the best boyfriend ever, she washed your clothes, cooked for you, and everything, even washed your underwear!!! and this is what you called as best friend? my best friend never touched my underwear...and you have a really best friend......I am not saying that it's all his fault, but this guy had make clear to everyone in front of her that they are just purely friend.....i do not know much further than this......
okay, you must thinking that this guy is the second prince charming...hell no........
So, who would he choose? it's just between the fat girl and the one in Malaysia...I do not know.....but i will tell you more in future....hehe...
I have a friend who questioned me and asking for thoughts about his personal life.....i think i will go briefly over here and at the same time, i hope you will give me some thoughts as well...
a guy, he has a best friend, who later turns to be his so called girlfriend, they helped each other lots, but they never admitted that they are couples, but outsider always think that they are indeed lovers...this girl, is never the ideal girlfriend for him, all these years they have been cooking together, sometimes they sleep together...but the matter about this girl is that she's fat..that's what he cares about, and the personality is too arrogant but kind hearted...
Second...He met another girl. yes, he's not in the relationship that's why he could flirt around..over here as well.....we could see that the girl is actually crazy for him......and she looks prettier than the fat girl...but she has a complicated heart....bad, slutty....
Thirdly...yes, there is another girl....who is in Malaysia now..... kind hearted.......pretty much an ideal one for him
so, the question came to me....who would i choose if i am in the same situation...
Isn't it good to have the priviledge to choose in your life? haha.....so i told him, i would definitely go for the third one, but the third one is always so faraway from you, and at the same time, you kind of bonded with the first girl who has accompanied you for almost 5 years over here, and now you are going to tell her that you wanted to have a break? well, yeah, since both of you did not have any commitment before, and therefore that would be easy, but it sounds easy, but how are going to make clear everything to her that both of you are actually "best friend"? she might not be thinking the same way as you are, and she's treating you like the best boyfriend ever, she washed your clothes, cooked for you, and everything, even washed your underwear!!! and this is what you called as best friend? my best friend never touched my underwear...and you have a really best friend......I am not saying that it's all his fault, but this guy had make clear to everyone in front of her that they are just purely friend.....i do not know much further than this......
okay, you must thinking that this guy is the second prince charming...hell no........
So, who would he choose? it's just between the fat girl and the one in Malaysia...I do not know.....but i will tell you more in future....hehe...
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hmm...choosing can be pretty tricky at times but in this situation, your friend would have to think of what he wants. when it comes to such a point, i think a little bit of selfishness wouldn't hurt. why do i say so? It's because now your friend would have to think of his priority. whatever his decision is, he have to make sure that he doesn't regret the choice he's made. of course there's sacrifices. nothing in this world can be gained without making any sacrifice. so be prepared in every step that you take and plan to take for you'll never know what's ahead of you until you're in the zone.
As for the 1st girl, WHAT WAS SHE THINKING??? didn't the guy made it clear that they're just friends? in this situation,i think the girl needs to be shown a clear statement that her relationship with your friend is just FRIENDS or best FRIENDS. if she's clear of the status and still insist of doing all the 'work' then there's nothing much to say la...she did it on her own freewill.
As for the girl in M'sia, if he thinks that she's the ONE then why not?? But... well as mentioned earlier, sacrifice. Long distance relationship can be very messy at times so it really depends on how much both of them want to make the relationship work.
At the end of the day,the assistance that can be given is to be there to listen to what your friend had to say and leave the decision making to him. I'm no guru in relationships but one way to decide is to list down both girls' strengths and weaknesses and decide based on what your friend look for in a girl. BUT don't campare.
In his MSN caption...he left a message over there....Controlling the triangle!!!! i guess he is pretty much enjoying the fame he is having right now....Hehe...If he is going to say things clear to the fat girl, there will be consequences!!! The girl moved to his next door!!!! gosh! how the hell is he going to runaway from her!!! he sees her morning and night for the next 2 years! or he has to move out from that unit!!! i really do not know what else could be done! he is stucked in the middle of nowhere...She's just a parasite anyway, and now i am thinking that she's her maid all the while, doing and gaining nothing....both of them are my friends...i'll just listen and gossip..that's it..hehe..